Alex J. Cavanaugh‘s Insecure Writer’s Support Group, held monthly. Click on the image above to participate.
…. I believed that setting myself goals would mean they would get done. That somehow, the magic fairies would slip out of the walls and sprinkle their dust everywhere. It’s a nice dream, I know, but 2012 has been a real eye opener for me. A realization that taking on too much meant I ended up doing nothing. The anxiety monster shows her head, ensuring me and getting writing / editing done are kept as separate as possible.
I plan to change things. To remind myself why I write – because I love it, and couldn’t live without it. So, 2013 will not include:
- Unrealistic goals of when one of my story / novel will be written and edited
- Getting hung up on everyone else’s successes
- Participating in NaNoWriMo – I know, this one is a big one. I really love the idea of writing a book in a month, but in reality, both years I participated, I drove myself to anxiety hell. I have to accept, I’m not a fast writer, that’s not my style.
- Ignoring my blog because I’m too down on myself. This means I plan to bring back my mythology posts, which I loved doing.
Instead, I’ll focus on what I’m good at. Write what I love, my way. I’ll be myself, because that will make me happy. And then, by this time next year, my stories and me will….
Great resolution. You’re gonna kick 2013′s butt
That’as an awesome resolution –write what you love and write your way:)
Good luck! it’s going to be a good year, for sure.
Nutschell
http://www.thewritingnut.com
Your goals sound balanced. And doing things we love should always be a priority. Happy 2013!
You are definitely starting off the new year in a positive way.
I know you will find the success you desire in 2013. I support you and if you need any assistance, let me know.
Hi Tania!
That’s the best resolution I’ve heard so far, that is to be yourself. Sometimes we get overwhelmed by too much goals to achieve and paralyzed with unrealistic deadlines. Although some people think that it’s the best way to succeed, I believe that it’s important to remain flexible and restate your goals from time to time. Doing what you love is the best thing in life.
Happy New Year to you, may the year brings you success, happiness and good health, and hopefully you and your stories will live happily ever after
That sounds like a plan. Good luck in the New Year!
I think that is a fabulous goal!! All us writers seem to get down on ourselves. We definitely need to cut it out!
Being yourself is the best thing. I’ve failed trying to be something else. We all have our own styles and work differently.
Those are excellent resolutions! I’m hard on myself too, and I push myself too much causing anxiety and gray hairs. You have the right idea.
I’m a slow writer too, and I’ve learned it’s okay. Slow writers unite! Best of luck to you in 2013!
I wish you a more relaxed and enjoyable new year! Enjoy your writing, and the rest will follow (but that’s often a hard bit of advice to follow). Can’t wait to see the mythology posts again.
Good luck!
Happy new Year and stay out of anxiety hell–no need to put so much pressure on yourself. Everyone has their own speed. Find yours and stick with it.
That’s the spirit! Control what you can control and be true to you.
You put this beautifully!
So often I see people, especially writers, set goals that are not only unrealistic, but often beyond their control. After all, ultimately, it is the readers that determine whether or not a story is popular and successful!
Keep doing what you’re doing, Tania. Have faith, and the rest will come.
That sounds like a very sensible set of goals. I am definitely one who compares myself to others a little too much. We all develop in our own way. Just stick at it and you will be fine. All the best for the new year. Cheers
Good for you, girl!
Love these goals, Tania! Way to stay true to yourself. It’s exactly how you should be. I hope you truly live out your dreams this year!